managing expectations

dun hope others will change
change yrself first

it's much easier.

Transgenders among us

The story is finally up on razor.

It has been up down left and right as I think about the process of chasing the story. And to think I might not have the opportunity to do this and go to BKK if my lovely neighbour had not push me to go further to fight for what I want.

Once again, I was really lucky to be able to find people to talk to me here as well as in bangkok. phew~~ thank my lucky stars. I just hoped how I pieced the story does justice to them.... It could have been done better I suppose but after dragging the story for so many weeks, I become a little leng bek with the editing already. Boooo....

Well, asiaone talked to me about my experience doing the story and here it is! http://news.asiaone.com/News/AsiaOne+News/Singapore/Story/A1Story20081211-107110.html

And do check out the videos on RazorTV. Here are the links:
http://www.razor.tv/site/servlet/segment/main/news/16192.html
http://www.razor.tv/site/servlet/segment/main/news/16202.html

and in Bangkok:
http://www.razor.tv/site/servlet/segment/main/news/16196.html


After the story goes on-air, my energy level kinda plummets. Hah... oh dear I better get my act up!! Next stories coming up are on Andy Lau and Aska Yang Zhong Wei. Yep...I'm in the entertainment team this month. ROARRR that means more late nights and weekends BURNT.

eleven minutes

I desperately need to rave about eleven minutes by Paulo Coelho. Btw, (spoiler) 11minutes is the average time people take to have sexual intercourse.

Coelho is indeed one of the most inspiring and groundbreaking authors of our time. Never afraid of being controversial and bold in his ideas and words. It makes me embarassed reading his stuff and yet his words and plot are so captivating I go on and on and on....

It's all about the orgasm and finding pleasure in pain.

And yet it's all about Love for the sake of Love.

At the end of it, I'm so glad and touched Maria the prostitute found Love for Love itself.


A time to be born, and a time to die; a time to plant, and a time to pluck up that which is planted;

A time to kill, and a time to heal; a time to break down, and a time to build up;

A time to weep, and a time to laugh; a time to mourn, and a time to dance;

A time to cast away stones, and a time to gather stones together; a time to embrace, and a time to refrain from embracing;

A time to seek, and a time to lose; a time to keep, and a time to cast away;

A time to rend, and a time to sew; a time to keep silence, and a time to speak;

A time to love, and a time to hate; a time for war, and a time for peace.

~Ecclesiastes 3:2

So so beautiful.

国境之南

如果海會說話　如果風愛上砂

如果　有些想念遺忘在漫長的長假

我會聆聽浪花　讓風吹過頭髮

任記憶裡的愛情在時間潮汐裡喧嘩

非得等春天遠了夏天才近了

我是在回首時終於懂得（也許天氣永遠會那麼熱）

當陽光再次回到那　飄著雨的國境之南

我會試著把那一年的故事　再接下去說完

當陽光再次離開那　太晴朗的國境之南

妳會不會把妳曾帶走的愛　在告別前用微笑全歸還

海很藍　星光燦爛　我仍空著我的臂彎

天很寬　在我獨自唱歌的夜晚

請原諒我的愛　訴說的太緩慢


Finally a good good romance story. Kudos Cape No. 7